I am in my mid-60s and have been happily married for decades. I have always been a very sexual person and consider myself healthy and normal, though at one end of the bell curve. A few years ago, my wife’s health worsened, and she declared herself no longer interested in sex of any kind. I continue to cherish her, but find the lack of sexual intimacy exceedingly difficult. I asked her permission to seek a friendly but not competitive sexual relationship elsewhere. There are many ethical issues already, but I wish to address another.

Read more here.

Sexual satisfaction is important for pair bonding in a relationship, as well as for one’s own psychological health. What’s more, we’re living in an age where personal fulfillment seems to be the ultimate goal. Despite this, men and women today may be having less fulfilling sex lives than in the past. One reason, the internet has altered human sexuality in a myriad of ways.

Read more here.

A long article at The New York Times Magazine analyses the issue from different points of view and with examples from the life of real people in the industry.

A recent article in the NY Times entitled “When Did Porn Become Sex Ed?” comments on the manner in which American youth appears to be deriving their sexual education from porn. Read the Comments on the NYT Pics tab for additional points of view on this matter.

This is a very interesting interview with Hitomi Tanaka & Anri Okita with English subtitles at a YouTube channel called Organic Couples. Hitomi and Anri are very candid about their careers in JAV, their likes and dislikes in the industry and their expectations for the future. After this interview you will appreciate these two ladies in a different light.

https://youtu.be/XIGQXdv5d5U